Monday, November 23, 2015

Monday Mantra: Life As We Know It

mantra is a sound, syllable, word, or group of words that is considered capable of "creating transformation".

Every Monday I will post a new thought, idea, or focus for the week. When you need a breather from life, when you need a little inspiration, or when you're about to jump over the conference table and strangle your co-worker, remember the mantra.


Monday Mantra: One person can make many differences

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I'm sorry I'm late with this. Again. It's just that this time of year makes me want to experience, well, everything. There's the shopping and the eating and the cider and the hot cocoa, the baking and the smells (oh, the smells...pine and cinnamon and mint) everywhere you go. There's the making your list and checking it twice, and my possible career with Santa because I love making lists and checking them twice. There's movie watching to do and friends to hang out with and, of course, the shopping.

There's buying new wrapping paper and bags, then organizing my wrapping paper and bags in my special Wrapping Paper and Bags section of my house, all Monica Gellar like. There's the GF pumpkin bread and cherry pie and Thai soup to make. Then there's the very important eating of the GF pumpkin bread, cherry pie, and Thai soup. There's the music and the singing, the decorating, the annual marathon Lord of the Rings watching to do. There's the puppies to walk and the crisp air to take in and the non-changing of the leaves (damn you, Phoenix!) to watch. Oh, and did I mention the shopping? *big happy sigh*


There's just so much life to live right now, you guys. So. Much. Life. To. Live.

Well, all of that has taken my attention and made me realize at 9:30pm that I still haven't done this other little thing called My Normal Monday Blog Post. So, here we go...


Along with all of my Life Living activities, I've been doing a lot of thinking about how best to live life. There's been some daydreaming, too. For instance, the other night when I was in the land of no technology (Payson) and I only had my weak Wi-Fi connection on my phone to entertain me at 12:30am because I couldn't sleep due to who-knows-what sounds coming from the forest behind my house, I came upon the Instagram account of Jedidiah Jenkins. I happened to find him because he's part of a group of people I deeply admire, the making-the-world-a-better-place crew that consists of Sophia Bush, Lauren and Aaron Paul, and a dozen or so other awesome people who use their platform to not just talk about change, but make change happen. All. The. Time. I love it.

In my semi-sleep lacking delirium, I started to daydream (er, nightdream?) about the group welcoming me in to their inner circle of awesomeness. You know, all of us hanging out around a fire under the stars, talking about life and the world and how amazing it is to be BFFs. It occurred to me that maybe, just maybe, I wouldn't be good enough to be in their group. I mean, they really do seem to be other-worldly kind and loving. I don't think I could live up to that. I'm flawed. I judge when I don't want to, I compare, I fall short in many ways. Although I right myself when I've gone wrong, I'm...not perfect. For some reason I thought I would need to be, in this daydream. To fit in. To belong.

Later that day, I read about Rosa Parks and how the world has changed, slowly, for the better. How we might not realize that because, thanks to TV and social media and radio, we hear all the terrible things, all the time. We hear about the bombings, the beatings, the murders. What we forget, however, is how bad things used to be. How bad they're not anymore.

Women can now vote. People of different colors are allowed to use the same restrooms. Humans live longer lives than ever before. We, the people of the world, care about each other. We rage against injustice when we see someone in a far off land being mistreated. We rise up and raise money for any and every cause we can possibly think of. We work together, across millions of miles, all the time to make this world a better place. And even though there are still terrible things happening, even though we still have battles to fight, I am proud of how far we've all come. I could say I'm proud to be an American, and I am, but what I'm really thinking is how proud I am to be part of humanity right now. To be part of a world where people like Rosa Parks lived and fought and changed things for the better. To be part of a world that is still flawed, but fighting. Fighting to mend the wounds, to fix the cracks, to find a better way. I am proud to be flawed, too. My flaws make me work harder to be better, to be kinder, to try try try.

I hope you all can see this, too. I hope you can see past the tragedies in the world to the good that also exists. I hope you are doings things and living lives that lead to better things. I hope when you see terrible things on the news you realize that yes, one person can make a difference. I hope you realize you could be that person.

I also hope you don't limit yourself. Not to one cause, not to one action that can make the world better. Not to one goal, not to one path, not to one single daydream. You are capable of many, many great things. I hope you realize this, too.


Friday, November 20, 2015

The Reflection of Shadows: Your Presence is Required

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Your Presence is Required

Set me free when you pull me back from me,
Take my blindness now - show me possibilities,
Warm my heart; let my instincts know the truth
That with every tingle of your touch your presence is the proof.

Let me speak all those hidden words that cut,
While I bleed my inner secrets, let me find a way to trust,
Take my hand; guide me through my desires
Believe me when I tell you that your presence is required.




Monday, November 16, 2015

Monday Mantra: The Evolution of All Things

mantra is a sound, syllable, word, or group of words that is considered capable of "creating transformation".

Every Monday I will post a new thought, idea, or focus for the week. When you need a breather from life, when you need a little inspiration, or when you're about to jump over the conference table and strangle your co-worker, remember the mantra.


Monday Mantra: Everything changes

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I'm sorry this is so late. I've been trying to think of what I meant when the phrase "The Evolution of all Things" popped into my head. Because it felt right when it showed up. It felt accurate. It felt alive.
It felt like all the things that have ever happened in life summed up in one pretty little sentence. Growing and changing and learning and living - this is the evolution of all things. This is the undying truth to the universe: Everything, absolutely everything, changes.

It made me think of the most recent secret in the Chopra series. Of how we try and resist change at ridiculous and completely unachievable costs. How we lie, manipulate, deceive in an effort to try and control something that is other worldly, free of restraint, incapable of being stopped- change. It made me think of how far I've come and how far I have yet to go. How I have evolved into the person I am today, right this second, yet how the very fabric of my being will alter itself in the next because this is how life works. Shifting, changing, taking action when we don't even notice. How this is the other yin to the yang of what the universe knows, what we forget daily: Nothing stays the same for long.

It made me realize how beautiful it is, this - the changing of everything. How all the fear and worry we carry around is unnecessary, unneeded. How much better every experience would be if we could see past those imaginary boundaries we've built in our minds. Change: The caterpillar into the butterfly. The seeds into flowers, into vegetables, into fruit. The darkness each one experiences - the cocoon, the burial - until the breakthrough. How this life, these experiences, are tiny and continual breakthroughs. How much lovelier life - humanity - would be if we remembered this. If we could remember another universal truth, the one we forget the most often: We wouldn't be here without change.

Friday, November 13, 2015

The Reflection of Shadows: You Stay

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Here's another one of my "Written to a tune" poem/songs.

You Stay

It’s not okay.
It’s not alright.
Every thought you have is
Gripping you too tight.

It’s all too much.
There’s just no way.
There isn’t anything
 You can do or say.

So you stay.
So you die.
Oh, so slowly,
Every night.

So you lie.
So you fake.
Every moment
You’re awake.

So you stay.

You’re not the same.
You lost your way.
You lost the map that showed
The path you should take.

You’re not alive.
You barely see.
“The person living in this nightmare
 Can’t be me.”

Your heart is weak.
Your head- it spins.
You’re searching, waiting, hoping,
Wishing for the end.

You know what’s right,
Since this is wrong,
But every moment that you stay
You feel less strong.

So you stay.
So you wait.
For the moment
To escape.

So you lie.
So you dream.
Of the day
When you’ll be free.

So you stay.

What will it take?
What won’t you do?
To let yourself escape
This solitude of gloom.

How far’s too far?
How much is too much?
How many times must your heart
Break before you’re done?

What’s one more day?
What’s one more tear?
It’s all just adding up
To multiplying fear.

So you stay.
So you break.
So you crumble
In mistakes.

You won’t go.
Just not yet.
Not until you’ve given
Everything you can.

So you stay.




Monday, November 9, 2015

All Around the World: Switzerland

Wanderlust: A very strong and irresistible impulse or desire to travel the world.
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Switzerland - one of my all time favorite places that never fails to impress me. From the clean streets, to the always on time everything, Switzerland appeals to the OCD maniac that I am. Trams are super-duper easy to understand and use, people are friendly, the shopping is good, and the scenery never lets you down. As there are quite a few options of things you can do while there, I've put together a list of all the things I've tried and which ones I think are the absolute best.
#1 reason you should go to Switzerland: This view.
If you've only got 4ish days in Switzerland and want to maximize the heck out them, I would highly recommend the following: Stay in Zurich. Spend one day exploring this city, spend one day going to Lucerne, spend one day going to Mount Pilatus, and spend one day in Bern. It's a lot of activity, but it's worth it.

If you have more time to devote to this beautiful country, extend your time in Bern and Lucerne, take a tour to Appenzell, and rent a car to drive out of Zurich and into the country. You'll see postcard perfect scenery everywhere you go. If you're up for a longer day you could also visit Jungfroujoch the top of Europe.

Getting from the airport to Zurich city center is easy. There's a train you hop on right at the airport and in about 20ish minutes, you're there. My favorite hotel (admittedly, the only one I've ever stayed at because I enjoy it so much) is Plattenhof. All you have to do is hop on a tram from the train station, get off on the Plattenstrasse stop, and walk a wee bit to the hotel. The reason I love this hotel and am forever devoted to it, outside of the normal good service/soft beds/great place reasons, is due to its location. It's just outside the city and perfect walking distance to the Old Town and Lake Zurich. Plus, they have the best - I kid you not - iced tea ever. They also have a gluten free restaurant attached to the hotel, so they get extra bonus points for that.

To help you plan your trip, here's a little more detail on each place and why they should be a part of your vacation plans.

Zurich

I like Zurich for many reasons. I love all the walking I can do, to and from the Old Town, the lake, the everything. I like that the trams are easy to understand and use, even though everything is in a different language. I like that when I'm there I feel like I just got home. I love that there are three different parks to visit: one right by the lake, one overlooking the city (Lindenhofplatz), and one by the train station. And I love how there seems to be swans just about everywhere you go.
Park by the train station
Lindenhofplatz
The view from Lindenhofplatz park
Park by the lake
There is one thing I don't like about Zurich and the main reason I haven't moved there (outside of, you know, normal reasons) - Spider Alley. I don't know what's up with this city and their spiders, but they are everywhere and they are gigantic. This walkway (when you're coming out the hotel from the backside to get to the Old Town) is FULL of spiders. I mean it, people. There are dozens of beastly, gigantic, kill-you-in-a-horror-movie-kind-of-way spiders. Avoid this walkway at all costs!!!

I'm fine, I'm fine. *deep breaths*

Ahem...

The only "real" problem I've run into in this beautiful place, and country as a whole, is eating inexpensively as a gluten free person. There are restaurants that cater to GF needs, however, because Switzerland is quite expensive it makes dining out for GF food, in particular, costly. "Normal" people can eat at the many, many food stands located in the Old Town and even at the CO-OP grocery story, where they have hot and cold food readily available. However, for a GF person, it will cost you one arm and 3/4 of a leg to eat. Unless, of course, you want to live off of bland salads and bananas your whole time there. Since that won't work for my taste buds, these are my favorite restaurants that I recommend you try.

Molino
This Italian restaurant absolutely blew me away. I had the GF penne salmon pasta dish that left me craving it the entire rest of the time there. I also had another pasta dish there one night that was quite good, but the salmon...mmm...the salmon.

Au Gratin
Not only do you have the option of sitting outside on a beautiful balcony, but you have a pretty wide variety of GF dishes to choose from. I had the pork rib dish, which was absolutely fantastic.

Sento
This one is a favorite for two very distinct reasons: the iced tea and the fact that it's attached to my favorite hotel, as mentioned above, making dining easy and convenient. The tea, you guys, the tea! They have a top secret homemade iced tea recipe that is to die for. I never thought I'd feel so strongly about a cold beverage, but I do. I drank at least two gallons on the last night, just trying to savor every moment I had with this fruity, flavorful, crisp drink. I don't want to get anyone in trouble here, but The Fiance was able to talk them into giving him the recipe, thinking MAYBE we could whip something similar up at home. Alas, this will never happen. There are about 15 ingredients, with 15 different measurements, and not a single one that makes sense in English.

Anyway, here are a few more pictures of lovely, lovely Zurich.





Mount Pilatus and Lucerne

If you really want to immerse yourself in the green goodness that is Switzerland, take a day trip to Mount Pilatus. My recommendation to get there: Viator Tours. I have used them in multiple countries with great service and you can earn airline miles if you spend over a certain dollar amount. That alone is worth booking with them. (I'm not affiliated with them, I just really like them a lot)

Viator offers a variety of day trips. The great part about the Mount Pilatus tour is that you also get a little smidgen of time in Lucerne. It's not enough, but it's a good starter if you're trying to squeeze a lot into a little amount of time. This tour is great for a lot of reasons: You get to ride in an aerial car to the mountain, take a cog wheel train (woo!) and go on a nice boat ride, all with some free time in-between in each of the places. The best part? The views. Oh, the views. I kid you not, this still ranks as one of my most favorite and memorable days ever.

Lucerne has some key sites that pretty much every tour book recommends for good reason: The Chapel Bridge, Lake Lucerne, the Lion Monument. My favorite is the bridge, full of history and unique in the way that there are beautiful paintings under the arches for you to admire as you walk on it. One thing I do recommend is checking to see if they have any fairs going on. Going to a craft/art/food fair in Lucerne is pretty doggone awesome.

Cog-wheel train ride down the mountain
Boat ride to Lucerne

Lucerne
Bern

Bern is my new favorite place in Switzerland and I'm pretty sure it will be yours, too. This old city brims with beauty at every turn. There's something for everyone here: shopping, eating, taking in the views, and learning the history of weird things, like the statue of the man eating babies. See? Something for everyone.

Friends, this place is absolutely breathtaking. What you'll see below is just a small fraction of Bern. There's much more to this magical place for you to explore, for instance, I'm told right outside the city are excellent opportunities for hiking with gorgeous views of mountains and valleys. Definitely schedule yourself some time in the wonderful place.

The main street leading to the bridge



Here are a few more pictures of one of my most favorite places in this wonderful world of ours.

Switzerland countryside...this is why you want to rent a car. Trust me.
This cute little town.
This weird/awesome art.
All the cog-wheel train rides you could ever hope for.
That mountain - Jungfroujoch.
These nerds...er, I mean us.
The top of Europe.

P.S. If you like the pictures, most of them can be found on my Society6 page. More coming soon!